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If Category Romance Is Unrealistic So Is My Life. Welcome To The Story of My Father’s Ghost.

Friends, I’ve had a large number of “unrealistic” things happen to me. Once, many years ago, when I felt I was so alone in this world, I broke down in the living room of the home I was now sharing—mostly with new friends. It wasn’t an easy time. I’d just separated from my partner. I didn’t really know why I was still in USA. Also, my parents were unavailable to me—for one, my father, a Frank Sinatra fan (that’s important!) was dead, and I was really feeling that. So, inside my head, I cried, “I’m so alone!” And as soon as I had, my laptop in my bedroom switched itself on, opened my iTunes library, and started playing Frank Sinatra’s Me & My Shadow—a song about never being alone.

Unusual story, right? Which brings me to this. As the naysayers love to point out, category romance can absolutely be unrealistic. And that’s often how I like it to be. Then again, when the protagonist, Dara, cares so much about a business deal that she scales the walls of a towering Sicilian nightclub in her high heels, it has nothing to do with the paranormal. Yes, it’s unlikely. But that just shows she’s brave AF.

The Harlequin novel in question is called Resisting The Sicilian Playboy by Amanda Cinelli. It’s super-fun—one of my fave Presents novels. If you like category romance, check it out!

Wishing you supernatural wonders, my friends.



About US

Welcome! I’m Star Tavares. I am queer and nonbinary, and I use they/them pronouns. My hubby Jake is LGBTQIA+ too. Our plush duck is called Duck and is super-ducking awesome. He likes to call himself an award-winning duck because we wrote a screenplay about him that won some awards, and who are we to argue?

The thing is, we used to publish in the romance genres, but after we came out, we thought romance didn’t want us anymore. But you know what, toots? We were wrong.

Now we’ve rebuilt our confidence and are back to living our Romancey Pants life, writing, reviewing romance movies, reading romance novels, and doing a whole lot of stretching. (Did I mention we’re getting older?)

Want to know more about Star’s writing credits? Under another name, Star has published romance stories, novels, and novellas with presses like Harper Collins and Cleis, and has won awards for their shorter works from the likes of Glimmer Train, Screencraft, and Narrative, where they also worked as an editor. More recently, Star’s nonfiction about gender identity has appeared in The New York Times and at Huffington Post Personal.

Since Jake, who is also a romance author, is starting to add more reviews here (along with Duck’s best frenemy Sir Mallard Jones) watch this space for more about him and his career.

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